“You for me and I for you, but for us, let’s make a baby,” is the typical romanticized sentiment.

Every married couple has faced the question, “When are you going to have a baby?” If they haven’t produced a result before their first anniversary, boomers assemble and give advice. On this point, everything change, afterward, external pressure pulls the couple apart. For the sake of society, they have a baby. If under these conditions a couple has a baby, there are higher chances of becoming irresponsible or strict parents. By ‘strict,’ I mean the couple is obviously stressed, which will definitely impact the children’s mental health and cause trauma.

In this modern world, raising a child is not an easy task. It involves much responsibility and financial elements. If the couple is financially unstable, it could add further pressure.

Another aspect is not being mature enough (mentally) to raise a child. I’ve seen this a lot. Teenage pregnancies and premarital sex often lead to this kind of childbirth.

Baby Jailyn was a 16-month-old toddler who died from starvation and dehydration in June 2023 after her mother, Kristel Candelario, left her alone at home for 10 days while she went on vacation. Candelario left Jailyn in a Pack-N-Play with some crackers and bottles and traveled to Detroit and Puerto Rico. When she returned, Jailyn was dead....

To make a baby, fertility is enough, but to raise a baby, you need humanity and common sense. In my opinion, postponing the decision to have a baby is okay, denying the idea of having a baby is okay, and going for legal abortion when you are not capable of raising a child is also okay.

In sarcastically, I should say babies should makes out of incidents, not accidents. Every baby deserves love and affection in this world. Research and surveys say first children are more likely to be experimental for parents, who learn parenting practically through them. On the flip side, first children often suffer more mentally.

#MakeBabyForTheLoveNotForTheSex